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The solution to reviving your waning motivation


We all had different starting points in the journey of martial arts, but there is no doubt we all have the same goals in mind; to be the very best at what we do, defining who we are, and making a difference to our lives. Without a question, most of us will lose sight of our goal and start to question ourselves: Why did I even pick this sport up in the first place. If you were someone like me, who was once extremely committed to training, turning up at the gym at least 5 times a week, up to the extent that the friendly coaches at Onyx start to holler at you: 'GO HOME! YOU NEED TO REST MAN!'

That daily ritual of packing your gear, getting to the gym, grind, and head home becomes a part of your life. You'll be telling yourself, Yeah, I can do this forever, I can juggle it with my work/studies/life commitments. The following week, you start your job/internship at a prestigious company, your baby steps towards the top of the corporate level.

Weeks go past and you start to realize, you haven't been to the gym in weeks or months. You try to kickstart that fiery momentum of a beast you've had while preparing for your fight. Then you'll realize, you start to give yourself an excuse to just save the training for another day. This is the one way ticket to exiting the sport and failing to achieve your goal, quitting the sport for good. Here's a blogpost on what you can do to prevent falling into the slippery slope of failure.

  1.) Set realistic training schedules

 As you grow older or have more and more commitments, it's not easy to juggle work/success/sports. To do this, you have to start managing your expectations, you either have to be super disciplined to train everyday after work (We all know that's tough given Singapore's hectic work culture), or start to taper down your training sessions, instead of planning to come 5 times a week like you used to while you were a single, hormone-raging teenager, a 5 day training schedule is probably going to intimidate you and you're probably going to start skipping sessions. Instead, Plan a more realistic schedule just like how a responsible contributing good citizen of our motherland would. 1-2 days a week. Make the training count, make it matter, train as hard as you can. It's not the number of days, it's the quality of training that matters.

2.) Have supportive friends

Personally, I feel that this is an important aspect. One of the motivating factors for me during school days was because I had a clique of kick-ass 'Avengers' like friends who would be hyped up before trainings. We fed off each others' positive energy. As time passes. Some of your friends might have found other interest, some might be like you, having internal struggles of their own. Don't rely and hope that your friend suddenly finds the fire again and motivate you to start again. Instead, be the positive influence. Take the initiative, drop him a text: " Hey F**ker, we've been away from the gym for too long! It's time to go back for some kick-ass glory days!" Don't wait for the change, be the change. Be that spark that kick starts everything again.

3.) Go overseas and experience training there

If you haven't been to Thailand to train, you should. It's definitely an eye-opener and a potential resuscitator to your dead martial arts career. After witnessing how committed and intense these thais are with their training. Hopefully it will wake you up and motivated you after you witnessed being a good martial artist looks like. Giving you a concrete visible and tangible goal to work towards might be that secret recipe.

4.) Look or try to recall your  past experiences

This takes a little mental work and nostalgia right here. Recall the time when you first learnt how to throw the perfect kick, remember the feeling when you won your last fight. All this positive thoughts and memories will make you feel good mentally and physically. As you start to feel good, your body craves for that sensation again. How do you get that feeling again? That's right, TRAIN.

With all that being said, there are much more ways to get it starting again. As I'm writing this post, the fire is slowly starting to build up, and hell, i have time to make it for the 3PM class. Time to get my ass moving again, Signing off.


Interview with Shinya KAKITA

Hi All, it's been a while since I last wrote. Today we are going to do an interview with Onyx MMA's BJJ coach, Shinya KAKITA. With the recent collaboration of Synergy BJJ MMA Bali and Onyx MMA Singapore, Shinya is our newest addition to the Onyx family. We are going to get to know this awesome instructor a little better.


Onyx: Hi Shinya, can you please introduce yourself to the BJJ community at Onyx MMA?

Shinya: Hi, My name is Shinya KAKITA. I'm from Tokyo, Japan. I am a purple belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu under Niko Han. I began training Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu on the 4th July 2008 at Synergy MMA BJJ in Bali, Indonesia. I received myTo blue belt from Niko Han on June 30th 2009. In October 2010, I started Boxing under Ahmad Mandan at Mirah Boxing Camp in Bali, Indonesia. I moved to Singapore in February of 2012. I received my purple belt from Niko Han on October 5th, 2012


Onyx: What is your BJJ story?

Shinya: I started BJJ while I was posted not Indonesia,. Bali to be exact. I was browsing through the internet and found Synergy MMA BJJ. So, I called up the instructor on his cell phone and visited his class, immediately I knew what I was looking for and I joined the next day.

So far, I have participated in Djarum Super Java Submission Championship 2009 (Silver), Djarum Super Indonesia Submission Championship 2010 (Silver), ADCC Philippines Championship 2013 (Bronze), South East Asian Grappling Challenge 2014 (Bronze) and South East Asian Grappling Challenge 2014 (Gold)

Onyx: Please tell us about the academy that you started BJJ in Bali.


Shinya: I started BJJ in Bali under Nikon Han of Synergy MMA BJJ. Synergy MMA BJJ (Synergy Jiu-Jitsu Academy®)is the first academy in Indonesia that offers world class trainings in the Arts. Synergy has produced notable fighters in MMA/One FC scene such as Francino Tirta, Max Metino, Casey Suire, Leo Krishna, Steger Rahardian, Vincent Majid and Yohan Mulia Legowo.

Head Instructor Niko Han is a black belt under Dickson Gracie who received his black belt from Mark Limon. Niko Han is a certified BJJ Black Belt under Rickson Gracie  and the Jiu-Jitsu Global Federation and the founder of Synergy Jiu-Jitsu Academy® in Indonesia. He started his training under Rickson Gracie in Los Angeles, which inspired him to open and expand his teachings of Rickson Gracie and Mixed Martial Arts in Indonesia. Niko established Synergy Jiu-Jitsu Academy® on July 2003 and later founded the Indonesian Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu Federation and the Indonesian Grappling Federation. He has been organising BJJ, Submission Grappling and MMA events and seminars throughput the nation since 2005. He is a wonderful instructor to train under and also a friend. Niko often hang out with the boys. He treats every student as his good friend and shares his knowledge of the Art with every student equally.

Onyx: Do you have any advise or pointers for our BJJ newbie here at Onyx MMA?

Shinya:  It's all about baby steps... and it's never too late bro, it's just the beginning! This applies to all levels.

Whenever you get tapped out, identify what you did wrong and work on it so it won't happen again. Every time I get tapped out, of course I'll be a bit upset with myself but I always get excited to fix it and ask the guy who tapped me and instructors how they did it and how to prevent it.

Then I keep training with the guy until he can't tap me with the same move anymore. Problem solved. :)

Remember, training at the Dojo (Onyx MMA) is not a competition, it's time to experiment and try new things out, strengthen your weaknesses so they become your strengths.


If you every roll as if it's a competition , you will never progress because you never try new things out and only  rely on your 'money' moves that you are already good at.

If I get taped, it makes me hungry to fix it so I don't make the same mistakes again. This is exactly what I was taught by my master, Niko Han.

Onyx: Alright Shinya, thank you for taking the time to answer our questions. We will meet on the mats soon.

Shinya: Thank you Onyx. See you soon on the mats. Remember that BJJ is actually all about self-defense and that is how it should be taught, all based on 'street ' no-rules mentality  situations as no one is technically prepared for it but it can easily be tested in a sport-environment with rules and regulations. BJJ is designed for smaller and those who are not gifted with superior physical traits to  defeat larger band stronger opponents in real life

I think practioners of the art should realise that competition is an good place to test those skills in a safe, non-lethal environment.

So if you are looking at learning a new art or maybe or maybe learning a bit of self-defense, come join us every Monday to Friday at 630pm at Onyx MMA or Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu by Shinya KAKITA

See ya!!!

The 4 month Journey to Victory

Boxing, Onyx Boxing
The Left that ended the night early.

This is a post that highlights the ups and downs of my first ever fight preparation for a boxing match organized by Legends Fight Sports ( A professional and well-organized event) that took place at chevrons two weeks back. Two aspiring martial-artists, Fir and DK, took the first step to sign up for the novice boxing match. And so, with their signatures on the dotted line, the daily grind began.
Words cannot describe these incredible journey. If you have a bucket list, competing in a ring should definitely be on your list, it's not just about senseless brawling or street fighting, it's about hardwork dedication and striving for perfection. The sweet science of Boxing, hit and don't get hit.

Preparations for the fight wasn't easy, that's right, nothing comes easy in life, and that's what makes the victory that much sweeter. Training began somewhere in mid-jan, Kandar and Arab, our chief boxing coaches, prepared the programme for us. The first phase was about unlocking that inner-beast within us. It's true when people say that within each and everyone of us, there's a fighter. Think about your life journeys, being born onto this earth, getting into that top school, fighting for grades, getting your future wife, each phase of life itself is a battle. To unlock the beast within us, training started with hard gruelling sparring sessions. Sparring with Kandar? ABSOULUTELY FREAKING SUCKKED, Just imagine fighting against Hulk just that he isn't green. The dude keeps coming at you no matter how hard a punch you land on him. With that, we were all physically and spiritually broken, but we always come back stronger and better. I'm a firm advocate of hard sparring, it should not be done excessively, but enough to make you feel like quitting the sport. The total rounds we sparred through out the whole training camp was around a good 60-70 hard rounds, talk about the major loss of brain cells.. Overall, we survived in one piece, the sparring were planned to bring us out of the comfort zone but never meant to hurt us or make us quit.

Subsequent sessions in the later months included running at Pandan reservoir in the evening under the blistering heat. The run is tougher than what most BMT recruits go through today, you can have our word on that. Physical training sessions were as scientific as it can be, Arab, having a deep understanding and vast experience in S&C, crafted programmes that were specifically designed to build strength and explosiveness for Boxing.

Kandar on the other hand is a pure genius in Boxing training. If you don't believe it, the video below is a testament of how they've helped us improve, enjoy the artwork.

It's not just winning, it's doing it with style.




Why I hesitated starting Muay Thai

Hesitating to sign up for Muay Thai because you feel that you aren’t athletic enough to take on this ‘hardcore’ sport? Or are you hesitating because you feel that you can’t have the time commitment?



Leading a hectic lifestyle today, we conveniently state a few excuses to brush off the idea of exercising. Just 2 years back, I was one of those who refused to accept the idea of working out as a lifestyle routine. Simply because of a multitude of reasons, I was never athletic since young; Muay Thai looks too ‘hardcore’ for me; and I’m afraid I’d make a fool out of myself and of course, by far the most common excuse– I have no time for Muay Thai.

Before and after. A stark transformation.

I didn't deliberately chose to start Muay Thai. It all started on this very fine Sunday late morning in September 2012 when I had to make my way to a Muay Thai gym where a friend of mine was training. No, I wasn’t there for a class. And no, I wasn’t there for a trial. I was just purely there to wait for a friend. So as I was early, I sat at the side of the ring, watching the trainees all geared up in shin pads and gloves, ready for a sparring session. It then struck my mind that, “Hey! That doesn’t look as ‘hardcore’ as I thought it would be. I mean, if these girls could manage going through the whole session of training and sparring, I’m sure I can do it as well right?”

However, that thought wasn’t strong enough to purge me out of my comfort zone to take the first step in signing up for a trial. The feeling then was probably common amongst everybody. It was like "huh, don't want lah." It was only after months of mental struggle and persuasion, that I finally took up my first Muay Thai trial in January 2013, simply because New Year calls for a New Year resolution. I wasn’t having any expectations out of the trial; all I could hope for with my fingers crossed was that I don’t make a fool out of myself in front of the other trainees.

Fast forward to 2015, I have been practicing Muay Thai for 2 years and throughout these years, Muay Thai hasn’t been just a hobby but it has been my lifestyle routine. From the usual 1.5hrs of training to the full 3hrs fight prep training session, this sport has brought my mental and physical limits to a whole new level. Yes, I do compete. And if you are admiring that I have the luxury of time to commit to the training routine, don’t be. Like many of you, I’m a full time working executive, and besides that, I’m a full time undergraduate student as well. My career, given its competitive nature, requires me to be consistently on the ball, and these three aspects of my life - career, studies and Muay Thai definitely each requires a reasonable amount of time commitment. It definitely wasn’t the easiest thing to manage, especially, when I was preparing for my fight. That points back to the most common excuse of “ I have no time for....”. Isn’t that the lousiest excuse as well?

Progression.
Well, if I had the chance to go back in time and change one thing that I regret, I would take up this sport much earlier! But ladies, it’s never too late! Despite my hectic schedule, training after work has always been a great joy to me; it’s this family that adds a pleasant note to end my day well without fail each time. Looking forward, I believe this family will just continue to enrich my Muay Thai journey and bring it up to a whole new level.

Top 3 videos to watch when you start losing motivation and focus in training.

When the going gets tough, the tough gets going. In the world of martial arts, like any other hobbies or passion you might have. That fire is bound to burn out at certain points in life. Work catches up to you, endless project deadlines and meetings. You find that 24 hours a day isn't enough at all.

Here, we provide some videos that have reignited our passion in the time of darkness. It worked for us, we couldn't wait to step back into the once dreaded gym after watching these videos. So if you feel sluggish today, just watch these videos, get fired up, and kick some ass.





The previous UFC welterweight champ, Johny Hendricks, is known to balloon outta proportions during off-season. So if you're like him. Take a look at how hard he trains during competition season.





Who says strength and conditioning sessions are boring. in this video, it's anything but boring. Watch this and it might just get you fired up enough to attend Arab's S&C session (which is no joke.)





A compilation of all the beasts in MMA, coupled with a kickass music, This is one of our favorite videos as it perfectly encapsulates how a daily grinding session in the gym is like. We just cant get enough of videos like these








ARE YOU MOTIVATED AND PUMPED UP NOW? ITS TIME TO HIT THE GYM, go destroy some bags and padwork.

Types of sparring partners you'll meet at the gym (and yes, we are focusing more on the douche-y ones)





We've all been there, and done that. Our virgin sparring experience, just like how we took our first baby steps when we were learning to walk. Everything is a brand new experience, a sensory overload, So many things happening at once. You're trying to get a grasp of reality, trying to figure out what's going on, Punches coming from the left from the right, And this being your first sparring session. The only skill you'll master here is the Iron Head Technique. That is, to do nothing but absorb punches.

In your journey towards being a better fighter or just the quest for perfection. You'll meet numerous sparring partners everyday. They'll help you vastly in improving, sharing and imparting of knowledge, or they'll just downright annoy the crap outta you. With that, we proudly present..


SPARRING PARTNERS 101


1.The Skilled Fighter

Nothing really interesting here and we shan't elaborate on it. Basically your instructors and fighters in the gym fall into this category, Tonnes and tonnes of stuff to learnt from them, they'll teach you and spar with you real technically, just like how your first girlfriend taught you the concept of holding hands, guiding you along. Sparring partners like this are the best, you'll learn what kind of shots with hurt you, without actually getting hurt by it. ( Think of it as firing blanks in an army exercise)

2. The Skilled Poser

AHHHHHHHH, this is where things get interesting. The skilled poser, he's got the looks and parts of what a fighter is like in your mind. Silently shadow boxing at one corner, refusing to join the normal classes because he/she thinks they are too good for the class. All hell breaks loose when you spar with them. They will be constantly correcting your 'mistakes' and 'errors' in the midst of barraging you with unnecessarily heavy punches as if it were a championship fight( Mind you even championship fighters dont hit this hard, gotta pace themselves yo!) At some point in time you'll start to realise, HEY! THIS GUY IS JUST USING ME AS A PUNCHING BAG, the advices and coaching are just a ploy to keep you there and not hit back. And when the sparring session starts to get competitive. Our champion poser has already run out of gas and decide to call it a day and head for the showers, leaving you in a heaping pile of angsty mess, not knowing what to do after taking that many cheapshots.

3. The Phone Operator

For some reasons, these people sure love to talk. Don't get us wrong, it certainly makes the gym more lively and fun. But there's always a right thing to do at the right moment. Chatting while sparring surely isn't one of them. Your phone operator sparring partner, while throwing his jab crosses and leg kicks, love to conversate with you after either one of you guys land shots. " Ohhhh so you're in uni now? wha!? you're 21? I thought you're 16! So what are you doing now? How long have you been doing this? What's your name? SERIOUSLY........  leave the chatter and mingling after the sparring session. Soldiers dont chat with their instructors or buddies during a live-firing exercise yea??

4. Mr Lonely Valentine

Being single isn't bad by any means, some guys go to the club to strut their dance moves and buy girls drinks. Others try on Tinder, and then we have our favourite group of single peeps: Fellow gym goers :)  They're always dressed and groomed their best for training, sometimes you might mistake them for people who have already ended training and are heading down to town for dinner or something, but no! They are here to train. During sparring sessions, everything is all fine until one of the many Onyx eye-candies shows up for training. Like a male peacock trying to impress. Mr lonely valentine tries his best to get the eye-candy's attention, at the expense of your safety. He starts letting out low groans as he kicks or punches you. It gets harder and harder. You ideal sparring session suddenly turn into S##T just like how sparring with the poser would feel like. Please guys. There are many other ways to impress, like approaching the girl after training and initiating a chat ( that would be 99cents for the tip :) )

5. The Xiao Mei Mei

Or we would like to call them the Chilli padis, we have quite a feel deceivingly good martial artistes in the gym. You might think some of them are 16 or below. But all of them are old enough and some of them are even old enough to be your employer. You're not sure whether to go hard or to even hit them at all. until one of their leg kicks land on you and you realise. S##t just got real. Do not be fooled by them, take them seriously like how you would with a fighter ( technically and not with brute force of course :) )


In our gym there are many wonderful characters and be sure to check out part 2 of our post as we continue discovering unique and special sparring partners. OSSSS

Freedom

I train almost every day. In the rare times that I get asked to go for social events, like school outings, or friend’s parties, chances are I’ll say “no, I have training.” Many people think I have no life (they have a point), and that my training impinges on my personal freedom. It never bothered me, and I never thought much about it; I just carried on missing out on said events and going about my training. One day, in school, I was struck by the concept of freedom and emancipation. What does it mean to be truly free? Am I free? And has my martial arts training helped in making me any less or more free?

If you think about it, my life is constrained by my training schedule. This is a sport that emphasises discipline and practice – when you get to a certain level, every tiny bit of improvement can only be achieved through countless hours of practice. As a result, if you want to excel in this sport, chances are you have to sacrifice a “normal” social life, as well as other hobbies that might interfere with your training. (e.g. when I train for fights, I can’t have the luxury of playing ping pong or tennis cause my wrist is fragile. Or I can’t stay up and watch chick flicks cause I need my sleep.) An example of my dedication to training would be when fights come up, and I’m in the gym 6 times a week, twice a day, approximately 3 hours each session.
However, the point of this post is to share my revelation that my involvement in Martial Arts and dedication to training has made me more free. Freedom is more than having the autonomy to do what you want (e.g. play ping pong whenever you want to). It is a state of mind that allows you to make choices in life that are not influenced by social expectations. It is living your life without caring too much about what other people think of you. It is doing what you want to do. Training every day is a conscious choice, driven by a conscious goal – to get better. In giving up the liberty to do what I want in order to focus on this sport, I am free from social obligations to accede to what other people demand of me and instead focus on myself and what I want.

Freedom is not exclusive to Martial Arts – dedicating yourself to anything that you love doing emancipates you, knowing that you do something for yourself, and not for anyone else, is liberating in itself. But to me Martial Arts is unique in its ability to allow individuals to express themselves and develop their own individual styles. People often look at it as practicing textbook techniques over and over again to perfection, but often the creative and spontaneous aspect of martial arts gets overlooked. True, we are exposed to a lot of techniques that are considered “proper”, and “standard”, but martial arts also gives you the room to put things together your way and express your own fighting style however you want to, based on your own choices and preferences. One of things I love so much about Martial Arts, for example, is fighting and sparring, when you get completely immersed in the process of acting and reacting, that you truly become lost in the moment. That experience, I believe, is something extraordinary, and transcends the mundane day-to-day routines in modern society. Whatever punches, kicks, and combinations that result in this state occurs without much conscious thought, and becomes a true expression of your unique individual style.
Many times in this journey, I have felt trapped and resentful at my apparent lack of freedom. Take cutting weight for example. It is somewhat hellish not to be able to do something as basic as drink water (if you are a very desperate weight cut situation). Times like this, you envy other “normal” people’s freedom to drink whenever and whatever they want. Yet, right after a fight, when I try to take a break and do other stuff that I might not normally have the freedom to, it feels rather meaningless. All these “freedoms” like eating junk food don’t really make you free (murtabak or prata might be another story). The times when I really feel liberated, is when I achieve something big – winning a fight after stressing over school and all the sacrifices I made. It is the pride that comes with making the decision to do something you really want to do, and committing to it. Knowing that you, yourself, played a big role in making this happen. Knowing that this is something that no one can take from you, and that whoever tries to belittle you won’t succeed. This journey has helped me develop the conviction to do what I want, and what I think is right, for myself. All of this of course, is in addition to ensuring that I uphold my basic responsibilities as a daughter, sister, and student. As I grow older, I can say that I’m not simply a passive product of the environment I was raised in, but someone who has shaped her own life in the way that she wants to. Martial Arts has made me freer than I would be without it.



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